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to pursue or not to pursue, that is the question

April 22, 2022

Every day, our choices define the direction our life heads in. Understanding whether you are pursuing your ultimate dreams, or just accepting opportunities to avoid confronting the scary truths, is powerful.

Decision-making may not always feel good.  However, looking within to determine your mindset may provide some clarity and help you with your tough choices. Are you coming from a place of growth and running towards your dreams? Are you coming from a place of fear and running away from opportunities that may bring you joy and abundance?

How do I know which way I’m running?

Running towards your dreams

  • You are taking control of your life.
  • Pursuing opportunities that bring you joy.
  • Doors are opening to new and exciting adventures, and you are ready for it.
  • Your intuition spoke to you, and you listened.
  • You feel at peace with your decision.
  • Your peers’ opinions on your decision do not affect you.

Running away from your dreams

Brooklyn therapist helping a depressed client understand his symptoms better.

  • You feel like your life controls you, and you’re just along for the ride.
  • Accepting opportunities only to get out of your current situation.
  • Your focus is on avoiding the discomfort and uneasiness you are experiencing.
  • You ask your peers what they think about your choices. Their disapproval may lead to defensiveness on your part.
  • Avoid thinking about your decisions and the consequences.
  • Actively working to convince yourself that you made the right choice.

In conclusion

Brooklyn woman frolicking in the sunset. Body image issues don't have to hold you back. Therapy can help.

Whichever way you find yourself running, know you are not alone on your journey. Making decisions in life can be terrifying. The key is to look within and reflect on your heart’s desires. Don’t be afraid to ask your loved ones or mental health professionals for any assistance you may need. Ultimately, the decision on whether or not to pursue the many opportunities in life is up to you. You are capable of building and running towards a life you love.

FIGURE OUT WHAT SUCCESS LOOKS LIKE FOR YOU WITH THERAPY FOR WOMEN IN MANHATTAN & BROOKLYN

The truth is, there’s no single or one-size-fits-all definition of success. Everyone has a different idea of what they want their life to look like. That is why it’s important to get clear on what that looks like for you. Once you have a better understanding of yourself and your values, you can start designing your life based on the things that are most important to you. 

Therapy for women in Manhattan and Brooklyn is a great way to figure out what success looks like for you. At Manhattan Wellness, we will provide you with a safe space to explore your feelings and goals. So you can find clarity on what you want for yourself. We will pair your vulnerability with our empathy and encouragement. Then together we will uncover the key elements that will take you from where you are now to where you want to be. If you are ready to make the changes you want in your life:

  1. Submit a Contact Form or Email Us at hello@manhattanwellness.org
  2. Learn More About Our Team of Female Therapists and Our Areas of Expertise
  3. Let’s Talk About How We Can Help You Feel Empowered & Ready To Take The Next Step. 

We believe that you have the power within yourself to make the changes you want and find your version of success. Our female therapists are here to support you in navigating this journey. Allowing you to reclaim your identity and take control of your life. Thus allowing you to create the future you’ve been dreaming of.

OTHER THERAPY SERVICES AT MANHATTAN WELLNESS IN NEW YORK

At Manhattan Wellness, our therapists are here to support you in navigating this journey and reclaiming your identity. So you can take control of your life and create the future you’ve been dreaming of. This is why we offer a variety of services to ensure you get the support, care, and guidance necessary. The therapy services we offer are Therapy for Maternal Mental Health, Self-Esteem Counseling, and Anxiety Treatment. Along with Dating/Relationship Counseling, Counseling for College Students, and more. Feel as if you are not living the life you deserve? Let’s talk about it.

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