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how do I manage my performance anxiety? 

December 26, 2023

At some point of your life, whether it was at work, on a sports field, on a stage, or standing in front of a class, you’ve probably experienced performance anxiety. Performance anxiety is a common experience that can affect people in various areas of life, such as public speaking, exams, job interviews, sports, or artistic performances. It can be debilitating and no matter how skilled you are, anxiety can get in the way of doing what you love and need to do. If you’re looking for ways to manage performance anxiety, here are some strategies that may help:

1. Prepare and practice: The more prepared you are, the more confident you’ll feel. Practice your skills, rehearse your presentation or performance, and familiarize yourself with the task at hand. The more comfortable you become with the material or activity, the better you’ll be able to manage your anxiety. Confidence is everything here – if you believe you will succeed, it will be hard for your anxiety to shake that.

2. Challenge negative thoughts: Anxiety often stems from negative thoughts and self-doubt. Identify any negative or irrational beliefs you have about your performance and challenge them with neutral or positive, realistic thoughts. Remind yourself of your strengths, past successes, and the effort you’ve put into your preparation.

3. Deep breathing and relaxation techniques: Deep breathing exercises can help calm your body and mind. Practice deep breathing by inhaling slowly through your nose, holding your breath for a few seconds, and exhaling slowly through your mouth. Other relaxation techniques like progressive muscle relaxation or visualization can also be beneficial in reducing anxiety.

4. Focus on the present moment: Instead of worrying about the outcome or what others might think, shift your focus to the present moment. Pay attention to your breathing, the task at hand, or the sensations in your body. Grounding yourself in the present can help alleviate anxiety, and will help you to stay focused and engaged with whatever the task at hand is!

5. Use positive self-talk: Replace negative thoughts with positive and affirming statements. Remind yourself that you’ve prepared, that you’re capable, and that it’s normal to feel some level of anxiety. Repeat these positive statements to yourself before and during the performance to boost your confidence.

6. Visualize success: Spend some time visualizing yourself performing well and succeeding in your task. Imagine yourself feeling confident, relaxed, and accomplishing your goals. Visualization can help build confidence and reduce anxiety by creating a positive mental image of the outcome you desire. If we can conceptualize a favorable outcome, our chances of realizing it are that much higher.

7. Seek support: Talk to someone you trust about your performance anxiety. They can offer encouragement, advice, or even help you practice. Consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor who can provide additional strategies tailored to your specific needs.

8. Take care of yourself: Prioritize self-care in the days leading up to the performance. Get enough sleep, eat a balanced diet, engage in physical activity, and practice relaxation techniques. Taking care of your overall well-being can improve your resilience to stress and anxiety.

Remember that managing performance anxiety is a process, and it may take time to find what works best for you. Be patient with yourself and keep practicing these strategies. With persistence, you can learn to manage your anxiety and perform at your best. Also remember, it’s okay if your performance isn’t perfect – practice self compassion and lean into gratitude toward yourself for showing up in the first place.

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